||[Sep. 29th, 2006|08:49 am]
Advice & Support for long distance couples
My boyfriend and I have been together for a year come Oct 7th. We live 1100 miles apart. We see each other every 2 months for about 3 weeks at a time.
My boyfriend suffers depression badly. And it seems like the littlest thing will set him off. He's always talking about how he's nothing, and how he will never ammount to anything. This aggervates me to the core.
It's really taking a toll on our relationship, I love him very much but it's like I can't take it anymore. Now my phone will ring and it's him, and I'm like UGH! because I know instead of our normal conversations of laughter and hope. It's going to be nothing but despair and depression.
HELP ME!! please if anyone has any advice on how to get over this hump Im open to and will try anything.
We're extremely communicative and I've told him all of this, it just seems to not make a difference.
Thank you in advance.